I want to take off from work tomorrow and do something in honor of my Precious. She would have been fifteen years old this year. Wow. I'm old enough to have a fifteen year old. I have some friends who are my age who are already grandparents and have been grandparents for years, but since my only living son is 13-and a half, I still find it difficult to believe that I'm old enough to have a fifteen year old.
I try to imagine too much what she would be like at this age because it hurts too much, but my imagination--my mind--goes there when I least expect it. Would she have been a girly-girl and wanted to be involved in cheerleading? Or volleyball? Or any sport, for that matter? Maybe even wrestling, like Samuel? Would she have been a tomboy? What would be her favorite color? Her favorite book? Her favorite tv show? Would she have a boyfriend? Would she follow in her mama's footsteps and be overweight or would she be my inspiration to get healthy? Would she and Samuel get along? How would I feel knowing that she would be getting ready to drive? Would she like to draw? Write? What would she be thinking about becoming when she grows up?
She would be in 9th grade, right? Would she have gone to Challenger?
Would she like to shop--with her mom? Would she like to go to the movies--with her mom? Would we be close? Would I be her mom rather than her friend?
I will never know any of the answers to my questions while here on this earth. I may be sad over the next few days, but this is when my Lord promised to carry me--promised me that I will not have to walk this journey alone. I will rest in Him and let Him send His comforter. One day, I will spend eternity with ALL my babies and that is something worth being Joyful about!